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Pleasure School: Sex taboos

Taboos are everywhere and on all sorts of subjects. Sex is definitely one of them, although there is no need for that. Sex should be fun to have and to talk about. So it’s time to break the taboo!

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Although the Dutch are known for saying what they think, there are still many taboos surrounding sex. A shame, because it is something that almost everyone has to do with. But as long as you see your preferences as ‘different’ or not ‘normal’, the image remains unchanged. But when you start talking about it, you will notice that everyone has their own preferences and there is nothing crazy about it.

Tackling taboos is often very difficult. For example, if you do not talk freely about sex with your parents, it can make it difficult for you to tell your partner what you like or do not like. Fear and shame can be involved, although this is not needed. Of course, a lot has changed over the years, but we are still far from reaching our goals. There are still plenty of taboos, which we believe need to be broken!

Not having an orgasm

One of the biggest taboos is the taboo of not (being able to) come. This would automatically mean the sex is not ‘successful’ or a partner has ‘failed’. With all its consequences. 67 percent of women have faked an orgasm for this reason. While in our opinion, the focus during sex should not be on the orgasm, but on the pleasure. Sex can also be very pleasant without an orgasm.

Sex Toys

Another common taboo is the use of sex toys. Pride and honor play a role here, especially with men. While toys can make sex a lot more fun. They come in all shapes and sizes, both for individual use as well as together. As we discussed in the previous taboo, not everyone can get an orgasm just like that. Sex toys can be a perfect solution. It provides variety and you will find out more about what you (and your partner) like. Try a vibrating egg for example, it’s pleasure for yourself and your partner.
Another tip: use lube! A good lube gives you an incredible boost during sex. It keeps everything moist, so you can continue for longer and experience a more intense feeling.

Sexting

The stigma of sexting comes from the negativity around it. The stereotypical image of older men contacting minors online or teenagers facing leaked photos. This is extremely wrong, but it is not always the case. When you know someone well, sexting is actually very fun and exciting. A naughty photo, a description of your sexual fantasies or what you plan to do when you see that person again. It is a fun way of experimenting and creates a different kind of foreplay.

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Sex is more than just penetration. There is anal and oral sex, but there is also a whole world beyond that. For example, perhaps you’ve thought about sex with multiple people, you think it would be exciting to be tied up or you’ve been dreaming about putting on a sexy outfit and role playing. Talking about these sexual preferences is often still considered uncomfortable, while it can be a lot of fun. Especially with these kinds of activities, communication is even more important, because you both should be up for it.
So there are still plenty of taboos on sex. All of them make sure that we don’t have the pleasure we want in bed. It is time for a change. This starts with yourself. When you start to see your sexual preferences as normal, others will do the same.

Porn

One way of foreplay is watching porn. Unfortunately, there is a taboo on porn too, even though a lot of people watch it. There are plenty of websites, you can watch video, audio or written material and you can do it alone or together. Plenty of choice and no reason for discomfort.

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