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Pleasure stories: Masturbation or meditation?

Annelies Keus is the founder and creative director of AV magazine. She is a passionate entrepreneur and creative content creator, who has gained experience in different aspects of the fashion and beauty industry. In our blog, she’s happy to share her perspective on everything related to sex with you.

Pleasure stories: Masturbation or meditation?

We easily commit to a week of juicing, meditation and booking yoga sessions as if our lives depended on it. But how many of us have the courage to admit to masturbation as the ultimate tool for mental health? It is common knowledge that masturbation is healthy. Most of us feel happier and less stressed after having an orgasm. And with more time spent at home, less interaction with other people, and a significant reduction in touch (especially for singles), it seems that now more than ever we are looking for new ways to (re)discover our sexuality.

As a single woman in her thirties, I’ll be the last to deny having taken advantage of living in lockdown over the past year to further explore my options in sexual pleasure. From bunny ears to clitoral wheels, suction vibrators and vibrating eggs, you can’t think of anything or it’s within reach. A good time to give free rein to your own fantasies and to think about what you really like – without having to take the wishes of a partner into account. Is it external clit stimulation? Internal stimulation? Is girth important, or length, or both, it’s your party! To be honest, I was just looking for a toy that is versatile enough ‘to get the job done’ no matter how I would use it.

The Satisfier 2.0 quickly caught my eye. This so-called “suction vibrator” is one of the newest trends in the world of sex toys and since I’m naturally curious, I couldn’t resist trying this highly recommended all-rounder (based on the many praising reviews). As an experienced single, I am certainly no stranger to using sex toys, but a tool that gets the job done through air pressure was new territory for me.

It’s something very different from the well-known dildo vibrators, and is designed to get you to an orgasm with as little effort as possible (do you think a man invented this?) which is great if you feel like a quickie on your lunch break. But if you really want the full experience of what female sexuality is all about, I wouldn’t recommend this option.

For women like me, who want to use masturbation as a way to get more in touch with their own bodies, I can only encourage you to take your time exploring the different sensitive zones on your body. When doing so, an orgasm should not be the main reason. The goal is to relax and enjoy it to the fullest, with or without toys. It may be helpful to put on some music and have lube within reach. But above all, make sure you’re not bothered by a constant stream of text messages and phone calls. Your iPhone has a “do not disturb” option for a reason.

During the times we live in today, especially when it comes to women, sexual expression is something to embrace, rather than be ashamed of. It’s okay to acknowledge that taking the time to connect with ourselves, our bodies and discover what we enjoy sexually can be as empowering as it is calming. Taking little moments for ourselves, whether that’s a craft project or a vibrator, it can only benefit us. That said, plan that moment for yourself soon, and most of all, don’t forget to enjoy it!

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Een erogene zone, ook wel hotspot genoemd, is een plek op je lichaam die bij aanraking seksuele gevoelens kan opwekken. Erogene zones hebben veel zenuwuiteinden en zijn daarom erg gevoelig. Sommige erogene zones, zoals je tepels, staan ook in verbinding met de geslachtsorganen. Dit soort voor extra opwinding. Aanraking van de erogene zones verhoogt de seksuele spanning, intimiteit en het plezier.  Ook is het mogelijk dat je eerder een orgasme bereikt door de aanrakingen!

 

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Maar, onze honger naar meer spetterende producten is nooit gestild. Dus je kunt er de donder op zeggen dat je hier in de toekomst meer moois kunt vinden.

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